ITASCA, ILLINOIS -Eva Myers, 30 was killed on July 4th, 2011 in a train accident. The man who was driving the car is charged with Reckless Homicide and DUI. The services will be at Ahlgrim Family Funeral, 201 N. Northwest Hwy, Palatine, Ill this Sat July 9, 2011 from 12:00PM until 4:00PM http://www.myfoxchicago.com/dpp/news/metro/eva-myers-train-hits-pickup-in-itasca-kills-woman-20110707
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John
7/8/2011 06:11:14 am
The driver WAS NOT killed in this accident. Eva passed on Tuesday. RIP
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Tina
7/11/2011 01:44:48 am
I was evas best friend and she was sooooo high on cocainne and booze that she was at fault too. Let this be a lesson learned. You live a life style of drugs and alchol and not care about your kids.this is what happens
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memory
7/11/2011 03:33:37 am
If you were her best friend, why would you disclose that she was drunk and on cocaine?
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THE REAL TINA
7/11/2011 07:19:29 am
THIS IS THE REAL TINA, IDK WHO U R OR Y UR USING MY NAME BUT U R SICK AND NEED HELP IF U HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY PLZ DO IT TO ME NOT A SITE, EVA DID NOT USE DRUGS!! WHAT IS WRONG WITH U SHE HAS 2 KIDS AND A FAMILY IN THIS WORLD U R A VERY VERY SICK PERSON IF U FEEL THE NEED TO TALK MORE CRAP AND LIES AND USE MY NAME PLZ COME TO ME PLZ I PROMISE U I WANT U TO COME TO ME IF U GOT A PROBLEM USE OR OWN NAME NOT MINE, I LOVE U EVA AND IM SORRY U CANT RIP CAUSE PPL R SICK MFERS... I LOVE U
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Important
5/26/2023 08:04:37 pm
Could you please call me 256-200-2257
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Chris
7/11/2011 10:35:16 am
What type of immature person pretends to be a dead woman's best friend and then say horrible things like this! You are a sick sick person. To the real Tina, I'm sorry that you lost your best friend.
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The real TINA
7/11/2011 11:22:58 am
Thank you chris evas daughter is destroyed by all this and will b looking for answers that only her mother and jeff have. My problem is not ppl expressing their opinions but using my NAME to do!!! Eva also has a very very young son and one day will c this crap as well.. And "tina" u make me sick u have something to say about Eva bring it!!! I will not let n e one use he name on vein I'm sorry for u so either get some help u sick piece of s*** or gladly come to me DO NOT USE MY BESTFRIENDS NAME IN VEIN or mine for that matter.... EVA I LOVE U AN IM SORRY FOR THESE SICK PPL, catch cha' later my love, missing u!!!!
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Tina
7/12/2011 08:48:28 am
First of all your a fake tina. My best friend had issues with drugs. Her daughter was a little slut who stayed with me for awhile while her mom eva lived it up and partied. Just because you have kids doesnt mean your a good person.she was drug adducted and love to party and drink. If she was such a great mother then why would she get in a car with a drunk driver. When u know you have kids at home. The answer is because she cared about being with her boyfriends getting high. She looked like she was on crack in her coffin. How sad. She looked really bad in her cheap clothes her family probably bought at the thirft store.i feel so baf for my friend eva. And for her kuds. Why not tell them the truth. She was good for nothing. Her kids are better off away from her family. They all are money hungry and im sure anything extra went up their nose. If this offends the fake tina.sorry but you really didnt know her. Lol..i love that someone cared enough about me to try to be me
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Juan
7/12/2011 08:55:34 am
Eva was drug addicted like her whole familt and she was not a good mom. I fucked her many times and she didnt care where her kids were. We drank and snorted. Wow..what great times. She was a great piece of ass. I had her about a minth ago. She wanted some weed so I made her work for it. She sure could suck.im sure her daughter can. She was lookin nice at that wake. She was flirting with me. I will have her when shes 18 hope shes as good as her mama.peace
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Lisa
7/12/2011 08:58:28 am
Wow.juan. Sounds like u new her best. I did know her as a party girl. Her kids were second. Drugs were first. But she was a nice person and really tried. R.i.p
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Heidi
7/12/2011 02:03:45 pm
This is the most outrageous and inappropriate thing I have ever read!! There is absolutely no excuse for the above comments. You all should be ashamed of yourselves. Takes one to know one!
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tina
7/13/2011 02:49:15 am
really all of u sick peices of shit, and "TINA" bring ur ass u stupid bitch u no nothing u got such big balls on this lil site and wanna pretend to b me bring it plz... contact me i dare u and all of u who r claming all this crap its funny JUAN ur no one i no knew all her friends not one person on here thats saying all this crap can tell me her address, what she did that week better yet tell me one thing thats in her house!!! I AM TINA THE REAL TINA and just cause im not fake and scared to prove it hit me up [email protected] cause im the real TINA theres ur proff look at her fb im on there and so is my email so if "TINA" can get my messages since shes me rock on lets c how u ride outta this one u stupid bitch... ALL U PPL SHOULD B SICK TO DEATH FOR WHAT UR DOIN EVA HAS CHILDREN, how dare u ur all scared and hiding well im not i AM THE REAL TINA fake "TINA" show who u r since ur so real, right ur scared casue ur NO ONE!!!!
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THE REAL TINA. i forgot i cant even use my name cause u stole it
7/13/2011 02:52:31 am
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THE REAL TINA
7/13/2011 02:57:52 am
[email protected]
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missy
7/13/2011 09:34:21 am
This is really immature. I think both fake tina and real tina should just stop. This is a page to grieve fir eva. Im sorry to both of u. But ,i new eva and I never heard of a tina. I worked with her and never heard of a tina. But, she never shared her personal life. But im sure tina you were her best friend. I saw you at the wake but didnt introduce myself. You were talking with some other people. I was just there for about 20 minutes. I thought she looked like an angel. She was at peace. I never met her children but I know she spoke of them often. Who cares if she did drugs or drank. Im not saying she did just who cares. Noone should judge. Noone is perfect. If eva thought she was going to die and leave her children she would have never gotten in that car.so what if they wete out having a good time. We all do. She didnt know that idiot she was with would run into a train.my whole point is this.i know she has a best friend tina because at her wake she was pointed out to me.so if there is someone acting like her you look crazy. It must be someone that was jealous of your friendship with you tina.to try to talk crap about someone when they die is just a coward.u should have told her when she was alive. If this is the family of the man she was with, shame on you. I think the real tina was a true friend that was cherished by eva and they had a friendship people wish they could have. I dont know u tina but I feel u truely were evas friend. Even in death u stick by her side. I hope we meet tina so I can properly introduce myself. and to eva im sure your an angel looking down at that crazy person. Make sure you send us an angel feather from your wings.
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THE REAL TINA
7/13/2011 09:46:33 am
thank u Missy, and i was very busy that day and didnt get a chance to meet everyone but thank u for ur kind words i have no idea y someone is pretending to b me its very hurt full that someone is and was that JEALOUS of eva that they would b doin all this it hurts me that her kids might c this and for that fact it hurts EVA and in her loss its my job as HER BESTFRIEND to protect her and her children from this kinda crap b in said, THIS IS OUT RIGHT SICK!!! i look forward to meeting u no how to find me as does the world.. thank u for loving EVA enough to stand up for her!!!!
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Ronnie
7/14/2011 02:25:49 am
To start I was not a friend that knew Eva as I had only met her once very briefly when she was with Jeff. The whole situation is devastating on both sides for both families. I have prayed for both & that they have accepted Christ in their hearts. Life is forever changed. I'm sure there is much remorse of decisions made. We have all made terrible decisions in life that we wish we could take back. Many of us have made the wrong decision in driving while under the influence for some of us it may only be one drink that effects our judgement. So before you cast the stone, thank God that this terrible accident that has taken a very precious life from this world & effected the very core of another as well as numerous family members & friends forever was not the cause of your own bad judgement. I too have lost a family member due to drinking & driving & have experienced many of the same emotions from an unexpected loss, the anger felt towards the other driver. Eventually & finally for me I have found forgiveness & gratitude that I was fortunate enough to share in my loved ones life ever so short as it was. RIP Eva. Jeff you are in my prayers. May God guide your heart & hope that through this tragedy you can help others to make better choices.
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tom
7/14/2011 06:55:01 am
R.I.P Eva. God Bless Jeff. My prayers are with you buddy.Accidents happen. We all have done stupid crap we wish we can take back. I only met Eva twice and she seemed very nice and Jeff and her looked happy together. I just hope something good might come out of all this anger. Eva or Jeff wouldnt want people to come up on a memorial and talk trash. I spoke to Jeff briefly when he was in the hospital. He wanted to kill himself because of what happened. He doesn't want Eva dead. He truely did love her. He said if he can take it back he would. Anything I tryed to say to him to comfort him didn't work. He is truely messed up from this. He is now in Jail on a 500,000 bond. I know it was traggic what happened but,I wonder if charging him with that high of a bond was a good thing. He was guilty of drunk driving. My thoughts are messed up. I just dont think Eva would want him locked uop for ever and I feel like she wouldnt want everyone hating him. Tina the real true friend I'm sure you would agree with me. I'm not sticking up for him eventhough it sounds like that but, just meeting her very briefly thw two times i did I dont think she would want this to lay heavy on our hearts. Im sure her family is mad. My thoughts and prayers are with them all and the real Tina too. Eva trusted Jeff. It's just a shame what happened.
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shannon
7/16/2011 06:25:17 am
Eva was my bestfriends cousin and you low life pieces of shit that talk a bunch of smack 2 make your life look soo fukn peachy need to come to my house and say some shit to my face 2106 e main wf ill. @least she was doing somthin w her life while u all were snortn it up!! LOOSERS
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Shannon
7/16/2011 06:35:12 am
All ready ive seen a coke head,a pedifile and a dope dealer,all whom are hiding behind a dead persons body who cannot defend there self you all need 2 come out and get help or better yet go get pissed slit your wrist and jump off a bridge so,that we all can write bout your mistakes and fuck ups and laugh on thee inside like she is doing rite now cuz shes the one in the better place u fukd up tards!!!!!!!
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shannon marie trusty
7/16/2011 07:37:01 am
Grow ur kahoonasa and mess me back oh oh i forgot ur a pedifile,a crackhead and a junkie what now!!!!!!!
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Shannon marie
7/16/2011 07:53:36 am
To juan fukn skank jose u are a pedifile fukn freakish motha fucka who showed up @ someones funeral whom u should have taken there place!! peace out w ur chimichaungas!!!!
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shannon marie-sarah jane hubbard
7/16/2011 08:07:18 am
u dumb motha fuckerz yeah we aint no fukn holly rollerz like you all are lmfao talk ur talk but cant walk the walk come on downnn......the price iz wrong biiooottchh!!!!
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DesgDrvr
7/16/2011 02:36:18 pm
Wow, people, especially evas family - very threatening plus i canot understand any of what you are saying, is that a different language? Violence is not the answer.
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rolanda
7/18/2011 12:48:04 pm
when i first meet Eva she came up with my cousin Ileen and Tony with their kid's they came up before but this time they brought Eva with them.I was staying at my aunt's place for the summer and it was my cousin sarah and me and we didn't know what to think bout Eva at first but we got to know her and we all became really close.The day before they was gonna leave out Eva,sarah and i would sit in sarah's room and talk bout staying in touch with each other and we did. One year i remember that we was all talking bout "oh i wish u could come down here" well then we all got this great ideal that we was gonna sneak her down here to hang out with us we didn't tell anyone and we talked bout it for a week and she asked us how would we come get her from the bus station and sarah was like we'll just ride a horse well then when we found out it was like 30 mile's we're like well we'll find someone to go get her. well we ended up getting sarah's mom up to go get Eva at the bus station but before she left she told us that she would deal with us when she got back but even though we got in trouble we still had a good time hanging out.we remember the good time's we had with Eva. When i seen what all that everyone said bout Eva that was bad it just hurt because the truth is you should remember the good times you had with her not the bad times. Eva i really miss you and i will alway's remember the time you spent down here and you will be sooo missed by everyone down RIP Eva
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Jae
7/22/2011 03:05:16 pm
I am Eva's Cousin on her mom's side. What is going on here is sick and twisted. "Tina" if you were Eva's best friend then you would know that she didnt use drugs and was a devoted mother who worked her butt off to turn her life around. I was so very proud of Eva. Anyone who would claim she was Eva's best friend would not trash talk her. That is not what a best friend does. To the real Tina, I dont believe we met at the service but I know this must be as hard for you as this is for the family. Your continued support is appreciated. And I will firmly defend my cousin til the day I die because she was a good person who strove to be better and better all the time and was a true inspiration to me.
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The real TINA
7/26/2011 12:31:48 pm
Eva was and is an amazing person, I miss her everyday and more and more as the days go by thank u all for ur support through this b for Evas mom left last week me and her read all this crap and were just sickened, one cause it's bs 2 cause I was the one with eva on her final days even at the hospital, I was with eva till the second I walked outta her apt on thursday as I looked back all I could think was wow, I talk to her mother almost everyday and were r both having a hard time with this as is everyone who love her but lik "mom" told me Evas mom were gonna get through this together and right now were just not ready. Again thaks to all for ur continued support in the loss of our beautiful amazing eva, I love u mama, till we met again I'm urs signed sealed delivered baby I'm yours!!!!!! Ima computer love u always zapp an Roger my love!!!!! Kisses from me to heaven.....
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TRICIA
7/29/2011 02:25:17 pm
Wow how amazed i am at the messages. Eva was just as messed up as everyone else is in this world.we all struggle to be the best. but who are we to judge. she was a single mom who did for her kids. i bet that the messages are from the family of Jeff. who else would write this. how dare them. Anyone reading this should step back and look at themselves. I met some really nice women at Evas funeral who spoke kindly of her. I think it was Tina, im not sure. So iut makes you wonder who this is. i know im annoyed by this. but in the end ,evas family will find out. the way it sounds is a family thats upset that thier family member jeff killed an innocent person. why eva? why not the driver. god takes the good
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THE REAL TINA
7/30/2011 01:41:51 pm
I SIT HERE IN EVAS CHAIR READING THIS CRAP AND SMILE AS I LOOK OVER TO HER PICTURE SITTING NXT TO HER CHAIR IN MY ROOM AND THINK, EVA PPL REALLY WERE JUST SO JEALOUS OF U AND EVEN IN UR DEATH BABY THEY STILL WANNA FEEL SPECIAL BY U... I LAUGH AT THEM CAUSE I DONT EVER NEED TO FEEL THAT WAY CAUSE I WAS SPECIAL TO U AND NEED NO ONE TO TELL ME THAT EVER CASUE U DID EVERYDAY, EVERY TXT ENDED IN AN I LOVE U... I MISS U MORE AND MORE EVERYDAY AND NO THAT I WILL NEVER FIND A MORE LOYAL FRIEND THAN U, WEVE BEEN THROUGH MORE THAN N E ONE WILL EVER NO AND I PROMISE ILL TAKE OUR SECRESTS TO MY GRAVE AS U HAVE URS... I LOVE U...
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sad
7/31/2011 04:02:43 am
I don't think anybody was jealous of her, just tired of her nonstopping string of lies, mooching, alcohol use, going from guy to guy, just to make it through day to day and making a mess of other lives around her becaues that's all she knew how to do. She plain just was not nice. You're the one that called DCFS on her because you were fighting. How sad!!
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THE REAL TINA
8/1/2011 03:11:18 am
SAD,
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jen
8/2/2011 07:18:16 am
what is going on here?
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a friend
8/2/2011 07:27:26 am
I met eva thru a friend and she was always very nice to me. She may have made mistakes in her life but sometimes people just get lost in life. She loved her kids, that much i know. To the real tina, i think its amazing how you fight for your friend even in death, im sure she would have done the same for you. you should create a memorial site to her so everyone who loved her can visit it and remember good times. Im sorry she made the choice she did, b/c it ended her life and took a mother away from her kids. Makes me very sad, she was such a beautiful girl. I dont want her kids to ever have to read these awful things, i know both of them too and they are innocent bystanders in all this.
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confused
8/3/2011 12:36:10 am
first of all i just want to say what a tragic loss. Im so sorry for evas family. However, i want everyone to stop glorifying eva and jeffs relationship. Lets be real, he was an epic loser, i met him once and met eva a few times. He was abusive to her and had he really loved her he would have never treated her the way he did.I think she almost left him a few times. He has alot of time to think about that now. I dont understand why nobody just comes out and says it. eva made a bad choice by being with jeff, end of story.
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anonymous
8/4/2011 04:16:26 am
my best memory of eva was years ago but we were all sittin around playing a game and eva could NOT understand how to play! She kept messing up but it didnt matter-- she had us all laughing. what a pretty smile she had. I will miss her but keep her in my memory. To the real tina- keep fighting for your friend. Your very genuine! What did you love most about eva and being her friend? I would love you to write about that on here and tell everyone what made her special to you to show these sick people that its best to share the good times when someone passes away. God will deal with any mistakes she made.
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what evdf
8/6/2011 01:36:53 pm
This is all very sad. Eva unfortunately mad very bad choices (being with jeff) he had some kind of h old on her. And yes she did try to leave him because he was beating her. I saw her quite a few times with lots of bruises and cuts and srapes because jeff was hurting her. I knew one day he was going to kill her it was just a matter of time. Rip eva
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J Respass
8/8/2011 06:47:34 am
“That though the radiance which was once so bright be now forever taken from my sight. Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, glory in the flower. We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind.” -William Wordsworth
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Real Talk
8/9/2011 09:14:29 am
I was there at the scene from beginning to end. To all the negative commentators,
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anonymous 2
8/10/2011 01:02:11 am
Dont know if "real talk" is true or not but thats an awesome point and puts things in perspective. Very nicely written.
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so sad
8/10/2011 04:40:51 am
Wow, was eva conscious while she was in the car? That must have been horrible.
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J Respass
8/14/2011 06:46:49 pm
What is important here is to remember a life lost tragically. Remember that 2 kids lost their mother. Remember that a mother had to bury her baby girl. Remember that 2 brothers had to say goodbye to their baby sister. Remember that a large family that loved her will be forever affected by this. Remember her life and whatever she did to impact your lives. It is in that mark she left on people that she will live on and we should always remember.
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NONE
8/16/2011 01:14:00 am
REMEMBER THAT THIS GIRL MESSED UP ALOT OF LIVES.
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NONE
8/16/2011 01:26:13 am
REMEMBER THIS GIRL WAS A MENTAL CASE, DRANK TOO MUCH, DIDNT TAKE CARE OF HER KIDS AS WELL AS SHE SHOULD HAVE, LIED, USED PEOPLE AND DESTROYED HER OWN LIFE BY CHOOSING TO BE WITH JEFF. SHE CHOSE AN ABUSIVE BOYFRIEND OVER HER KIDS, HOW IS THAT BEING A GOOD MOM??? THATS THE TRUTH OF IT, THINK ABOUT THE IMPACT OF THAT. STOP MAKING HER OUT TO BE AN ANGEL, ITS INSANE. SHE SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN SOME HELP AND PICKED UP THE MESS SHE MADE.
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J Respass (tired of the insensitive douchebags)
8/19/2011 11:50:14 am
so every woman in an abusive relationship that has kids is a bad mom? have you ever been in an abusive relationship? Unless you have how could you ever understand the turmoil someone goes through. I have been there and it isnt an easy road. There is a reason thousands of women die at the hands of an abusive partner. And who doesnt lie? Anyone who says they never lie, is a liar. None, everything you said just proves to me that you neither knew or understood the real Eva. So instead of making yourself look like a total douchebag to the entire world why not just do us all a favor and shut your goddamn mouth, you insensitive ass.
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wow
8/23/2011 02:57:26 am
I myself had met eva a few times and though i realize she had problems, no one will ever make me believe that she liked to hurt people. I dont even think that was in her nature, i just think she got off track a little bit. If her kids suffered at all for that, im sorry just as im sorry for her whole family. I can tell they miss her by the things they write. I also believe that she loved her 2 kids to death and i will always beleive that too. She was a nice person and i will keep the few memories i have of her with me. And further more, i dont think she deserved ANY of the things Jeff did to her. And why she stayed only she would know. To J respass- im sorry that this person who wrote the above comments offends you, they obvioulsy didnt know her at all.
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none
8/23/2011 07:18:11 am
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Not cool at all
8/24/2011 03:06:15 pm
Im going to find out who the peoe are leaving lease horrible messages. I will post your names and info on this site. Since you can go onto a open forum and bash someones life then thete should be no problem with me letting everyone know who these people are. My husband was at the scene when this women eva myers lost her life. My husband had to go to speak to a doctor for about two weeks after this traggic accident. He would clise his eyes and all he could think of is the impact she must have felt. IT doesnt matter what she did...who she dated...none of this matters. What matters is eva died young. She will never grow old..see the next president..know the next cool hair style..be a grandma ....see her kids graduate or marry. Think of her as a human being who just messed up a little in life. If she was a drug user a drunk or even a bad mom...who r we to judge. Besides she would have eventually straightened out. She would have got it and ended up doing the right thing, its just her life was cut short so she didnt have time to straighten up things. If she hurt you in anyway let it go. If she mad you cry or mooched money and never paid you back..let it go. Think of why you lent her that money in the first place or think of why you have hard feelings with her. You need to let it go and let eva be at peace. You had to have been friends with her to have lent money to her or have a fight with her. How about remembering why instead of thinking of the bad. My husband said she had Very pretty blue eyes he said it was like he was looking at an angel. So miss eva myers where ever you are, sleep with the angels..god bless you and your family. In the end we all die. So remember when your writting something negative would u want this to be you.
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So rude
8/24/2011 03:14:49 pm
What assholes. I hated eva but, I never wanted her to die. I couldnt believe this when I heard. I cryed because we used to be cool . I have no idea who tina was but you sound like a good friend. Everyone messes up. I heard she had children. Sh as me on all who have left bad messages. The way she died was terrible. I too had a hard time sleeping wondering if she was knocked out right away. I hope she didnt feel anything. The guy that was with her should be punished to the fullest. since this happened everyone I was angry with I called to make a mends. evas death really woke me up. I will never get in a car with a drunk driver.if it could happen to eva it can happen to anyone. I wish I could have made the funeral to say goodbye. Rest in peace eva.
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J Respass
8/27/2011 04:21:35 pm
Thank you wow. These things truly do offend me as she was my cousin and the way I was raised is if you talk bad about one of us, then there is an issue with all of us. She was a great inspiration to me. I wont say she never made mistakes, because she did. But she rose above them and became a great mom and no matter what she did in this life she will be missed by her entire family.
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The real TINA
8/29/2011 09:00:14 am
ya no, I stopped reading all this crap cause I needed my own time to heal and deal with all this but c I that ppl still have something to talk about just makes me smile.. EVA had the biggest smile and brightest EYES (and they were green, just needed to add :-)!!) idc what n e one will ever say about her or her life in her super short life and my own personal 16 years with her she wa nothing but true and loyal to me an my family she was my family. I miss her everyday an my god rest my soul that's the truth, cause she was my very BESTFRIEND and with all her mistake and mine as well we always had eachothers backs always, even if we didn't want to we just did cause we understood one another and loved one another!!! I'm sorry so many ppl still feel lik they need to talk about Eva just shows u how important she really was that almost 2 mths later ppl keep chiming in, again makes me really smile noing that she still has such an amazing inpact on ppl.. Idc what she did or y all I no and will ever no is the joy she brought to my life and how sad I am to have lost her!!! Eva, baby keep working ur magic cause u will always b of importance to me and mylife I love u always.... I'm sorry if I don't get back or responed fast enough if it's really important or heart felt words or feelings plz share all my info is public and I'm happy to talk about eva and share how she impacted others.. But I can not and will not as I'm grieving for such a loss read this straight up BULL SHIT Im sorry, real talk u say it best and for that I thank u, I was on the phone with Evas mother as she read ur post and agreed u said it best and for that myself and Evas mother thank u!!! Again the continued support is grately appreciated, but at this time we who loved eva r very much so grievinng for a daughter, a sister, a mother, a friend we r trying to process and deal so plz as a human keep the BS to urself no one wants to her about every flaw a person has only GOD CAN JUDGE ONLY GOD!!!! again thank u to all how r understanding in our loss of an AMAZING PERSON WHO WE NO AS EVA..
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The real Tina
8/29/2011 09:06:00 am
Sorry for all the spelling and gramer mistakes I'm understandably upset and shacking with my tears falling down so plz excusse me if I'ma lil off as I post again it's the crying, anger, and tears and just wanting my words out there even if there misspelled.....
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The real TINA
8/29/2011 10:09:21 am
Not kool at all thank u for everything u said I didnt mean to stay focused on the fact u said Evas eyes were blue I'm sorry, they were green but just as much a beautiful as u explained, I'm sorry I was pretty overwhelleme with all I was reading and didtnt mean to let ur wonderful words not count, mayb ur husband or real talk r one in the same!!! If so he said wonders fo eva and so did u so I personally thank u!!! Tina
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wow
8/30/2011 05:01:47 am
Tina-- glad to see your back! Im sorry that the negative comments have hurt you on this site but no one can take away what eva meant to you. are you going to make a memorial site for her with pictures and stuff? Not where anyone can comment obviously but that might help you and anyone who loved here heal a little bit. I did that for my freind years ago when she died but i have since taken it down. Hang in there sweetie! and for what its worth, i thought eva was a sweetheart.
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the real TINA
8/30/2011 09:33:38 am
WOW, thanks alot i have her fb and was thinking to do a site but just not sure yet what ima do yet ive been doin alotta soul searching lately so thats were im at, i aswell lost another one of my bfs in a car accident almost 6 years ago and i still miss him everyday and i wasnt even as close to him in ways i was with Eva so will c i guess i really dont no n e thing right now, n e one that wanted to could just contact me i mean if they really wanted to.... idk still in shock i guess hasent really hit me lik it has been lately lik to starring at pixs, tt her and listen to her voice over and over and reading her last messages to me on friday idk im having a pretty hard time rigth now but thanks ALOT HONESTLY for ur words!!!!!!
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wow
8/31/2011 02:39:01 am
anytime, tina. My heart absolutely breaks for you and if you do a site in honor of her, please let us know on here. Im sure youll have alot of visitors to it! I miss my friend everyday too and still wish her site was up. Your friendship with her is fascinating and i can honestly feel how much you miss her. Sounds like u were friends for a long time.
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The real TINA
8/31/2011 04:50:01 am
wow, I will look in to it and surly let u guys know, I miss her so much we were so close it kills me inside some of this crap b in said here, eva was not even close to perfect and by fair an angel in this life I've been friends with her since we were 16 we had our glrs within weeks of eachother, were only weeks apart in age as well, our youngest r mths apart, no one in this world has a clue what I'm dealing with right now as my everyday life has forever changed. Eva moved blocks away from me to b closer to me and now I've lost her.. so with that said she had her flaw BUT I loved her tho we might not always agree we loved one another very very much in 15 years we had one fight one thats something so special, my heart breaks everyday that I wake up and open my eyes to c her pix and no it wasn't a dream and I won't c her or tt her today, I have a million memories and just wanna tt my BESTFRIEND that's all I wanna do idc what ppl say she did or didnt do I care that I no better and I miss her an love her so very much that when ppl say these things I attack it's my nature as was it hers to protect the ppl we love!!! So that's really all I'm trying to do. All the bs is not needed she can't defend her self or her choices now so y do ppl feel the need to talk crap NOT A ONE of these ppl bashing her woulda done it to her face and that's what hurts me!!!! Eva, I miss u babe, I love u, and I'm trying I swear I am I GET A LIL BIT STONGER..... :-(
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AMY
9/1/2011 12:10:19 pm
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good memories
9/2/2011 03:19:21 am
Ive been following the comments and alot of them shock me. I knew eva briefly but she was pretty quiet and easy going when i was around her. Tina, you are a loyal friend and now your her voice. She obviously wasnt perfect but i want to point out that she was a human being and alot of the things written, true or not, are making her out to be less than human. I know she was a mom, a friend and alot of things to alot of people. So, having said that, i would like to see some good and kind comments/ questions. We will never now have a real chance to know her. I think its important to point out what made her a PERSON, like what music she liked, did she like to read or cook or where she loved to travel to.Did she love to laugh? THere should be GOOD memories on here and the more of those there are, maybe the bad will seem less important. Just remembering her, it breaks my heart ill never know her better. Tina, i hope you can put some great things about eva out there like you have been. Hope i have a friend like you when i leave this earth.
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Good memories
9/2/2011 07:02:43 am
and for what its worth, i really hope that when you feel strong enough tina, that you set up a memorial site. I thought that was a good idea, because, (and i mean this sincerly), you would be the only one to do it justice. Keep us posted!
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the real TINA
9/6/2011 07:44:17 am
thanks alot GM and for everyone that does care i am in the works on an amazing site for EVA it will take a few weeks but it will b done and b amazing just as she was i have to put my all into it cause it must b PERFECT....all my thanks to u all, loving u always EVA...
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wow
9/7/2011 01:19:03 am
good for you tina!! Cant wait to see it, im sure it will be amazing and everyone who really loved her will have somewhere to go when they are missing her. Thats so important. Sometimes just to see someones face that you miss really helps and to have friends and family contribute pictures, it helped me when my friend died too. NOTHING replaces talking to them or seeing them in person but we all have to move forward somehow. I give you alot of credit for all your words, strength and love for your friend. Im 100% behind you!
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The real TINA
9/7/2011 12:27:00 pm
WOW, thank u so much u have no idea how much that really does mean to me, I can't even put into words what u just said means but my tears say it all so thank u....
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Stupid idea
9/8/2011 03:00:03 pm
Why would anyone make a memorial for this stupid nasty bitch. We all should be thankful she is dead. Im going to start a page on what a big liser she was ..lol. Her family had her burnt. Thats soooo funny. I woukd have let the bugs eat her. Maybe we will all get lycky and an animal will shit or piss on her ashes. Lol..the only thing I would hate is not seeing it
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Just a hunch
9/8/2011 03:18:39 pm
I bet all this negative crap being wrote about eva is from jeffs family. It would make sense because they only new what jeff told them about her. And most of the crap he did and said towards eva was bad. He was a big asshole.lets all remember this. Why eva it just doesnt seem fair.also I just have a feeling jeff did this on purpose. It was no accident. Noway. I will never believe that. He wanted to kill hernd humself but it didnt end the way he wanted. Sorry about the misspelled words. My ipad sucks. R.i.p eva.we will all meet again.
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HMMMMMM
9/9/2011 02:17:03 am
my "hunch" is stupid idea and just a hunch is written by the same person judging by the times and all the unbelievably bad spelling. Kind of ironic, huh???
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good memories
9/9/2011 04:19:26 am
you may have hated her and thats your right, maybe she wronged you, Stupid idea. But she does still have friends and family that love her and that is very disrespectful to write where they can see your words. And if your goal was to get tina to NOT to the memorial site, you just gave her more fuel to go ahead with it. If thats how she needs to move on from her friends death, thats her right. I dont get what this girl did in life to deserve these comments, i wish someone could explain that to me. I dont get what is making people so hateful, i never got that vibe from eva that she was a bad person.
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The real TINA
9/9/2011 04:38:43 pm
U SORRY PIECE OF SHIT SORRY UR LIFE IS NOTHIN BUT SHIT AND EVERYONE YOU KNOW DOSNT LIKE U BUT DNT EVER TLK ABOUT MY BESTFRIEND LIKE THT IT JUS SHOWS WUT A PIECE OF SHIT U REALLY R
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The real TINA
9/10/2011 01:58:03 pm
fueled and so ready to go thank u!!!! Ppl r only saying bad things cause they suck and r jealous that they didn't matter to Eva, so they feel the need to vent and that's kool I respect that whoever, SLANDERING get name in VEIN will not b tolerated at all so to all that still feel the need to talk SHIT PLZ stop hiding bhind these lil name and just say who u really r I mean if ur not scared ofcorse which I no u r!!!! Thank god for me that my husband is a master computer hacker and is getting every single IP number that has ever posted on this page it's gonna b an amazing thing when u bastards get fucked for slander!!!! Freedom of speech is one thing this is another so it's to late to try covering ur tracts now ur caught!!! Saw ur main man tues eva he's getting so big I gave him so much love I no he knew it was sent from heaven, sat with u today and talked for along time, I miss u more and more everyday I love u.....
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wow
9/10/2011 01:59:33 pm
you know what tina? i know these comments make you so upset and i TOTALLY get that. But whoever is writing this stuff loves that they are upsetting u so much. Dont even react to it, i know its hard not to but thats what they want. You love eva and thats all there is to it. Let them hate all they want, its not gonna change anything. they are low lifes that get off on this.
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The real TINA
9/10/2011 02:00:43 pm
oopppsss my bad on my spelling I'm a lil pissed
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The real TINA
9/11/2011 01:04:48 am
wow, that's the thing they think they get to me, truth b told YES it hurts but it makes me laugh cause they're hiding bhind a site that's what bugs me ID LOVE SOMEONE TO HAVE THE BALLS TO COME at me I mean really say something to my face cause I'll tear them apart it all good, nothing but love here, loving u eva....
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sympathizer
9/20/2011 12:17:12 am
i just want to let everyone on this page know .. that what this person is doing is disgusting. tina you need to contact a lawyer and discuss filing a lawsuit against this person for impersonating you.
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The real TINA
9/20/2011 12:37:35 am
thanks for the info I've looked into what I need to do as far as someone saying their me and the great thing is that every computer as a locator so I'm good luckily for me slander is against the law and no judge will take lightly to slander of a women who can't defend her self so thanks....
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yaz myers the daughter
9/24/2011 10:33:07 am
this in unfair n rude thing to do n my mothers page she was a great a woman there is no one that can bring her back wh0oever is argueing on this hop off this my mom is to be layed in peace not be broken out of it i love my mom im in pure agony i wish i could have seen this early in time whoever thik she was a mental case the annoymous person i hope things in life happen to you .!PEOPLE R HURT JEFF THERFORE HAS LOTS TO DEAL HE HAD TAKEN A LIFE OF HES LOVE N A MOTHER N DAUGHTER! we should be mature n not be comment with profanity im 13 and know better because there woman that gave birth to me raised me to not put other down u all need to realize argueing n fighting this well not bring her back nothing will! a awfull accident had happend i know one thing she wouldn't want to hear this bs on anyones page for comment about a death use ur commen senses.
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The real TINA
9/24/2011 11:23:02 am
i hope all of u sick minded fucks r happy now I just had to listen to yaz crying her eyes out over all ur fucked up comments I pray to god on ur judgement day that god has no mercy on ur souls for u have hurt a dead women's child in ways ull never understand yazzy is only 13 and had to read the gross things u ppl said I hope that makes u feel real kool. It's one thing I had to read them but her daughter I hope u all burn in hell and u feel the rath of gods angry for what u have said about eva and for myself and yaz's pain having to read this bs! Now as u all move on with ur lifes lik nothing ever happened we r stuck with the nasty mean things uve said burned in our heads!!!!
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Hannah (jeffs daughter)
10/3/2011 08:58:09 am
i wouldalways go to my dads house on the weekends!eva was my second mom. i love her so much! she would do anythig for me and her kids! she was a GREAT PARENT and never said no! she loved her kids soo much and its a shame Ayden is so young, he probly wont remember his mom! and i know m dad didnt do this on purpose! HE LOVES EVA! i remember being in the hospital the day my dad found out eva has passed away, i was laying in his hosptal bed with him.. and my dad broke out in tears! ives never ever seen my dad cry in his life, except for that moment! i started balling and we were just crying for ever! my dad loves evea and had plans to marry eva. i remember coming on every weekend going out to friday pizza. WE could never stop laughing. everywhere we would go we made the bast outta it and always laughed! all of us as a family has amazing family moments that will be in my heart forever! i would look at yaz as my sister and ayden as my brother! i love all of them and they are all in my heart forever! i remeber.. ayden yazeva my dad and i all went to extrem rampolines and we were all jumping having soo much fun!!! those are the moments i will always remember!!!! i love you eva! you are like my second mom and you will be in my heart forever!<3 (:
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tragic
10/4/2011 06:47:28 am
My question to all of you is why do you think Jeffs family is writing these bad comments about Eva? I can guarantee you its not his family! Why would anyone comment anything bad about her? Because she was not a good person. She has ruined lives, marriages, relationships and families. All the remarks of how he was abusive, an asshole, and did drugs...you people apparently dont know him. He is a kind hearted, hard working man who loves life, his kids and God!! He would do anything for anyone at anytime. Jeff did not do this on purpose. It was an accident!!! Are you all on crack? Why would he leave his kids behind to grow up without a father? Jeff did not take Eva, GOD took Eva. Unfortunately Jeff played a part in it. It was her time to go...not Jeffs. He couldve easily died in this tragic accident. Nothing is going to bring her back. My heart goes out to her kids. How about some compassion for Jeffs kids. They have to live with this each day just as Jeff does. They knew Eva very well. Look at what his daughter wrote. How heartbreaking is that?!
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Upsetting
10/21/2011 12:02:32 pm
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yaz eva daughter
11/7/2011 11:06:04 pm
I love you and miss you mom not a day goes by that i don" think about you ! my birthday is saturday my first without you i hope to see u aqgain in life i love u mopm! RIP
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The real tina
11/8/2011 04:02:58 am
Yazzy, shell b with u sat. Shes always with u baby, no that she lives in OUR hearts. I love u....
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The real TINA
11/24/2011 11:11:40 am
happy thanksgiving baby wish u were here, I love u...
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anonymous
12/6/2011 04:57:01 am
Did this Eva have a lot of tatoos? and live in Northbrook at one point?
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The real TINA
12/7/2011 03:03:38 am
yes she did have tattoos and did stay in northbrook very breifly....
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The real Tina
12/24/2011 01:55:00 pm
merry Christmas baby I miss u....
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The real TINA
1/1/2012 07:12:34 am
Happy birthday and new year baby, never ever did I imagine starting it off with out u I miss and love u so very much.....
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Armando
1/1/2012 10:07:02 am
Eva god blessed you baby miss u ? For all the good friends & family members of eva .that showed respect and writing things that are good about eva thank you and sorry u had see this shit! ! That people Put this on page sorry. Sorry is because for those I'm grateful people that they are ??? there time will come in one way or another ? Those Who know me wish u came forward and tell who said this things ?? God might have mercy on them but I WOULD NOT? P.S TINA NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD EVER SAY THIS BUT THANKS FOR BEING U SHOWING LOVE TO HER? ( RIP EVA MYERS SEE U SOON BABY !! GOD WISH HAD CHANCE TELL U HOW MUCH IAM SORRY FOR NOT BELIEVING IN YOU?AND HOW HARD IT IS TO DO WHAT U DID FOR ARE DAUGHTER ? SO LOVE FOR THAT 4 EVER GOOD BYE BABY.
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The real Tina
1/4/2012 06:00:29 am
Armando, I loved her more than n e one will ever no! And u and eva had some amazing times dispite the bad none of that matters she did care and love u in a special way after all u did give her Yazzy, I no she's a handful and more just do ur best and plz always keep eva in mind when making choices for Yaz, dont b blind sided after all she's half u and half eva (kinda scary :-)!) none of the ppl on here bother me n e more I no the real eva and I no her heart no matter what n e one says... Best of luck to u mando take care of Evas baby and do right by her ad eva would want u to, I'm glad that u steped up and so fasly took over as a dad u no eva had a hard time sharing so I that u for doin what u have... God bless u, eva baby I love u an miss so horribly ur babies t ok I no 100% ayden is but after reading what Armando said I believe that he's doin his best for Yaz, lik u always say let them talk cause they don't no u or ur heart and ur right babe their just groupies that's all no ones nos the truth and I'm taken it with me,, I LOVE U
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Jae
1/9/2012 11:28:37 am
missing you so much right now. It's times like this I could really use your advice and now I have no one to turn to that would understand like you. I miss you everyday and I wish you were still here. :(
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armando
1/12/2012 01:46:04 pm
I know baby me to wish ask her show me way in to your hart but iam doing my best ? Hope u know that love baby mom is in are hart?
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The real Tina
1/12/2012 01:53:05 pm
looks lik I'm not the only one who's missing u baby grl.. :-( I'll kiss ur baby for u he misses u as well... But he talks to u when he's here :-( I love u mama!!
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hannah
1/13/2012 02:16:28 am
i have AIDS
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sad
2/12/2012 11:04:10 am
Whoever wrote this pretending to be Jeffs's daughter is sick!! All of you can only thing about Eva's kids right now...remember Jeff has 2 kids also and they read all of your STUPID IMMATURE SHIT!!!
bob
1/18/2012 02:12:53 am
hey eva u will b missed
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Tina leave the respass family alone
2/24/2012 02:26:58 pm
Finally, eva is fading away. Hopefully we do not have to put up with nasty tina. She needs to stop acting like she was evas best friend. Best friends dont walk into court on jeffs side. Shame on you tina. Shame on you for what you did. You were so jealous of eva. You even called dcfs on her and her kids. Who does that. A fucked up mental case who is jealous. Also leave evas mom melody alone. You have done enough. Your not going to replace eva in melodys life. That was her daughter who she loved deeply. find someone else to latch on. Also, all the bad comments, everyone knows it was you. Then you would come back on this page and say it wasnt. Your really a sick mental case. Get help
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The real TINA
2/25/2012 12:56:30 pm
fuck off and go away u sick nasty sumy trailer trash fucks!!! No one cares about n e thing u have to say... Eva nos I no the rest of u can FUCK OFF!!!! stay outta my life an business....
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Yaz myers
3/2/2012 03:15:06 am
First and secound of all Tina u did a wrong u weren't my mom only best friend becareful what you do in life karma is bad. and leave my mom in peace she is in rest n leave her there yhu don't deserve to be on jeffs side if u truely were a friend u must be inlove with hym or sum kinda sick critcicle way of your thoughts who know but just saying stay outta my grandmas life u cause to much drama YHU ALWAYS HAVE TO HAVE THE LAST WORD ! but NOW I DO ! Because you can't beat the fact I'M EVAS DAUGHTER!
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the real TINA
3/7/2012 05:49:53 am
So very very funny!!! None of the above statements r true it's a matter of public record u dummies!!! I never ever would hurt eva all u have done that enough... Including ppl close to her no need to name names u no who u r... I'm really over this that's a FACT... ppl who where actually in Evas life and seen her in the last year no better so the rest of u get a hobby.... Geezz darn eva groupies they can't get enough... And for the record I have never ever tried to take Evas place or b her ever!!! Have a nice life...
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just saying
4/2/2012 03:13:41 pm
eva was a lost girl who tried the best she knew how with the tools she was given in this life. yaz n Ayden really were the only things she was sure she did right.please leave this woman alone. none of you are the maker she had to meet at the end. none of you have been given the power or right to judge Eva or anyone else for that matter. please leave her rest finally at peace.
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The one and only real TINA
4/8/2012 06:26:27 am
happy Easter baby... I miss u and love u always...
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Glenn
10/17/2017 12:07:53 pm
I was friends with Eva growing up in Buffalo Grove. I just today went by the crossing that accident happened and paid my respects to her. She was a great friend of mine growing up. May she always Rest In Peace. I’ll always remember the fun times from those good old days. May this accident be a lesson for everyone. You will never be forgotten my friend!
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3/19/2021 12:48:35 pm
Eva had the Best years of her life with Chris from 1999 to 2008 we went to Disney World, which swim with the dolphins down in Florida I financially supported either like a queen I dressed Eva on Michigan Ave and on She is properly buried in my cemetery plot with her own personal headstone Eva said I’m I’m always “Chris’s girl” we had the best 9 years together, no was not in my vocabulary for whatever either wanted.
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11/30/2021 06:18:39 pm
I know this is very late as i have really just been growing up im only 12 now and still gathering info on everything that happened as much as i can and just trying to understand stuff but i just want to say that i really wish i could meet my mom and know more about her i think about it all the time and cant get my mind from wondering more and more things i just have been struggling a lot lately with my depression and my thoughts and dont know where im going in life. I really hope i can continue to learn more of what happened with all this and feel less lost and pointless. And lastly i just want to remind people that just b/c you may not be financially struggling or you could live somewhere nice or anything like that doesnt mean you dont have problems and your struggling more than you think is possible internally and in your house and people tend to think everything is perfect for anyone who grows up in a relatively good area. i know i havent even gotten to the hard parts of life yet but i have a non-stop sense oh hopelessnes and not caring abt life. and love you Tt i wish i can see you soon rlly miss you same thing with you sis ily you both and really wish i could spend more time with you both
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THE REAL TINA
5/12/2022 05:25:57 pm
I LOVE YOU BUDDHA! TAKE THAT FAKE TINA!!! baby im sorry you saw all this i really am. Ima tell you everything i promise one day. i txt dad ima try and shoot for this weekend with you since hell be back. i love you txt me .... Leave a Reply. |
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